It's All About the Journey

So, folks, I know I've been AWOL lately, but I promise you there's a good reason for it. I'm not telling you today, so just table that for a few weeks out. Today, I want to talk about the things that work when a guy tries to show that he's interested in me. I also want to talk about what really just doesn't work. This is a good one to share with your guy friends, your brothers, your dad (if he's all single and stuff). Share this with your guy friends for all the single ladies out there. Pickup lines: Okay, I know these are old hat, but I'm known occasionally for throwing out a corny one myself from time to time. When in doubt, don't . If you know she's funny and cheesy and will take it well, go ahead. In fact, the first example I have is so wrong I can't believe it works, but I'm told it does. 1.)  "Bey, saby, how's your fussy peel?"  Don't ask me how that works, but a dear friend of mine swears that in a bar, that pic...

Good story time! Well, Chris messaged me on OKCupid. He said he had figured out the algorithms for searching the best way and found me because I'm a Spartan (meaning that I've run at least one Spartan Race and I didn't die). He's training for the Ultra Beast and I'm not nearly brave (stupid) enough for that. So he was charming and in great shape and he didn't seem dumb as a post. I agreed to go out with him. We decided on breakfast on a Friday morning and it was cold and rainy and awful. I saw him approaching and thought he was taller than I thought he'd be. Of course I wore flats because no one wants to make a short guy feel short on a first date. He's Filipino and his skin... I could only think I bet his toned body is that same golden color all over . Yeah, my brain wasn't totally functional. He had that perfect, shiny black hair that all Asians get and he was broad in the chest and narrow at the hips and carried himself like an athlete. That...